Sunday, January 28, 2007

Uplifted and Edified

This weekend has been so great! I have really felt uplifted and edified. We had a wonderful stake conference having Elder Henry B Erying with us. I'm not sure my notes and thoughts can accurately get the message that was given and I definitely can't use the eloquent words but I'll give it a try. I want to remember as much as possible and be able to come back to it. It is longer than I intended but for journaling purposes, I wanted it here.

Sat morning I got the best hand delivered Good Mail from Jane. It was the best homemade bread I have had in a long time (it's already gone)! Thanks Jane, I almost hid it from the rest of the family. Luckily (for my waist line), I resisted!

{annoyingly dark picture of some really good soup}
I spent most of Sat thinking about, prepping for and cooking my soup. It turned out great. Except for the part about all the fat and calories in the soup. I chose to ignore that part though! You can too if you make it.

Sat night the adult meeting was great (I might say that a lot in this post). The theme for our conference was 'Challenges facing the Family' a talk by President James E Faust from the worldwide leadership training meeting in 2004. There are so many challenges facing us right now and they gave solid talks pertaining to this topic. There was a lot of talk (in both meetings) about FHE, family scripture study, family prayer, family worship, and teaching our kids how important the Savior is on our daily lives. I wrote as fast as I could so we'll see how much of it makes sense.

A counselor in our stake presidency used this quote when talking about marriage. He was saying how it can be hard but so worth it. He said many more things but here is the quote.
It's a little like wrestling a gorilla. You don't quit when you're tired, you quit when the gorilla is tired. ~ Robert Strauss

I had never heard this before and I love it. Really this quote could be related to issues we face daily. We get tired of trying to make life work, to lose weight and be healthy, to have a better attitude and stay positive, to be more organized, to be stronger than Satan so we quit. This list could go on and on. I am guilty of quitting before the bell rings so to speak. I don't think of myself as a quitter but I do tend to slack off until I'm not doing it at all, whatever the issue. So I want to make this quote work for what is getting me down or holding me back. Have you heard this before?

Elder Eyring was scheduled to be in Nairobi Kenya this weekend. He went to the airport to fly there and was told he would not be able to enter the country because his passport expired in less than 30 days. He admitted to being irritated with the man at the airport counter, thinking 'Well the Lord wants me in Africa so I know I can get there.' (Totally paraphrasing here, remember that.) Once he found out in no way would he be allowed to enter Africa he went home. He said he felt like he had failed the Lord, knowing he was to reach people as one of the Lord's Apostles. He told President Packer how he felt. They looked over the stakes that had not had a visiting Apostle for a long time or never. It has been 28 or so years since we have had one here on our area. He was welcomed with open arms.

This was what I was able to write down (I would get caught up in listening and forget to write. Who else does that?)

'The Lord knew the difficulties we would face. That's why He sent us a Savior.'

'The Savior didn't pay for sins generally. He paid for each of our sins, individually.'

'The Plan is not the easy way. It is the sure way.'

'The Iron Rod is the sure and safe way. Difficult choices will get us there. Home again with Heavenly Father.'

Today was just as good although I had three little people all around me and my attention was sometimes commanded elsewhere than the pulpit. (yeah I know that was a run on sentence!)

Our stake president issues a challenge for us to read the New Testament before we meet again next conference. I do love the New Testament and it has been awhile since I have read and finished it. They even handed out bookmarks to keep us on schedule. I still think I'll print one from the website Jill posted about. This is something I think I can handle (I can, right?). Maybe I should do some reading in the library each week!!

I took 7 pages of notes from Elder Eyring's talk today. How do they already not make sense, it was only a few hours ago?! I should have taken some class about shorthand and understandable note taking. Reading these back it's almost embarrassing. Maybe I should go through them more before I post little bits but since I'm having hard time right now, who knows how I'll be tomorrow! Dang it, it must have been the kids.

He talked about forgiveness and getting rid of contention. Also FHE and Visiting Teaching and Home Teaching. All of it very, very good. Here are short thoughts I hope to organize.

The New Testament is a message of Hope. (referring to our challenge)

Contention will fall away with the doctrine. It takes two for contention to continue.

We each need forgiveness. It will change your life. Do away with contention and you will go away being humble.

Hard to offend, easy to please. (Kristi has said this a few times and I LOVE it!)

Avoid situations where contention is present.

Deal with it now. We need forgiveness now.

The Savior's standard is high. He doesn't ask us to do it without His help.

Be patient. The Savior is coming. It will take awhile but be prepared for a miracle.


This post feels so random but what can I do? My memory is already failing me and at least I'm not alone with this feeling, thanks Michelle.

Are you ready to start Monday?

18 comments:

Amie said...

Thanks for sharing your notes. I love to read them.

Oh - I hope we are not critiqueing grammar. Sometimes I have a whole paragraph in one sentence. And we won't even talk about spelling and other mistakes. No judgments here.

I'm sure next time I am frustrated with Jimmy if I think of that gorilla picture the mood will be lightened.

michelle said...

I've never heard that gorilla quote before! Food for thought -- usually when I'm tired I just want to give up, but I have found that if I really want to, I can still accomplish a lot when I'm tired, literally and figuratively.

It sounds like you were well-nourished this weekend! I'm glad Elder Eyring couldn't make it to Africa...

Anonymous said...

Oh....Melanie....thank you so much for posting your notes. I had planned on taking them and then got so caught up in hearing it. Thank you, thank you. I really needed them.

It was an incredible conference, wasn't it? I'll never be able to recap it, it's too hard to explain an experience like that.

Thanks again. Oh! and your soup WAS incredilbe--all you readers out there...it is definitely worth the calories =)

Thanks, too, for the card. I cried and cried when I read it. Definitely helped to make the weekend even more powerful. Thank you.

Melinda said...

Thanks for sharing. I love it all. We all need reminding of all of those things.

The soup looks soo yummy. I will have to try it this week.

And yes, since you read my blog you already know I always having spelling mistakes. That is one thing I want to work on!

Anonymous said...

Wht, I ma nut dbad spilere!!!!! heeheehee
OK!!!!! My Blog and post always has spelling mistakes. So sorry. I think I should use spell-check more often.
What a great post. Very uplifting. I hope you have a wonderful Monday.

Amy said...

I love that gorilla quote. Thanks for sharing your notes. Don't you hate how they don't make as much sense when you're reading over them? I think you could probably blame your kids quite fairly! It sounds like your Stake Conference was really great. I'm glad you had the opportunity to hear Elder Eyring. We are so blessed to have such men among us.

jenn said...

I'm more ready for Monday having read your post! I LOVE the quote about the Plan is not the easy way, it is the SURE way! Sounds like something my mom would say and just rings so true with me!

I am still jealous- I think Elder Eyring is the best! Thanks for sharing so many great insights!

Anonymous said...

Loved the gorilla quote! I really love Elder Eyring, I just love his quiet, humble spirit. He is a great teacher! Thanks for sharing your notes.

Anonymous said...

I know of your blog from my sis-in-law, Susan. I was anxious to read how Elder Eyring's visit was. I hope you don't mind my sneaking a peak at your blog. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and remembrances of his talk - they're great!

becca said...

What great thoughts!! Thank you for sharing! I am so impressed with all the notes you took, wow! The gorilla quote is too cute!

Anonymous said...

I like the gorilla quote. I'll have to remember that one. Thanks for posting all your thoughts on the conference. And to think we ditched stake conference to go to a missionary farewell!
And your grammar is fine. DI run across lots of mishaps (mine own included!) all the time.

Anonymous said...

Wow - sounds like a great weekend for you! I, too, love the gorilla quote - sometimes a little imagery like that does the trick for me. Thanks for recapping your thoughts for us.

Anonymous said...

I absolutely love Elder Erying. How exciting to have him at your conference. The gorilla quote seems to fit parenting very well. :-)

Anonymous said...

I loved all your notes. None of mine ever make sense either. I can't write fast enough! I haven't ever heard of the gorilla quote either--what a great quote.

I am feeling a bit slackish lately too. i was doing so good for three weeks and now I am allowing Satan to take over my attitude. Thanks for the recap of your meeting.

Anonymous said...

I, too, wish I knew shorthand. I had a boss that knew it, and it was so handy -- fast and coded. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this. How wonderful that Elder Eyring could come after 28 years! Amazing story. And like everyone else, I loved the gorilla quote. There are so many applications for that.

Anonymous said...

Loved reading your notes. Thank you for taking the time to post them. I loved this comment.

-The Savior didn't pay for sins generally. He paid for each of our sins, individually.'

It makes your really feel like the Savior truly does know us, what we are going through, and how to help.

Anonymous said...

LOVED reading all of your notes...especially like the gorilla quote.
I HAVE to make that soup, it looks so good!!!

Anonymous said...

So many wonderful tidbits packed in there. I love that gorilla quote.
What a blessing we have to be occasionally instructed in person by an apostle of the Lord.