Sunday, August 22, 2010

Over It

Facebook that is. I've thought about deleting my account for quite a while, probably close to a year, but I just kept not doing it. Good news, I loved keeping up with family and friends and even more loved reconnecting with old ones I haven't talked to in a long, long time. Bad news, I got more and more sucked in as time went on, especially this summer. I hid negative people and ones that used foul language (too bad most of them family members on both accounts) to make it more enjoyable but still I checked it too often. This morning, I felt over it and knew it's what I needed to do. What in the world was I wasting so much time for? Status updates? Gossip? News? Movie reviews? Negativity? It has not been good for me this summer.

Today at church I took the program and when I was done reading the announcements there was this quote under the heading Words from our Prophet. Definitely a light bulb moment after deleting my account...

" We have become so caught up in the busyness of our lives. Were we to step back, however, and take a good look at what we're doing, we may find that we have immersed ourselves in the 'thick of thin things'. In other words, too often we spend most of our time taking care of the things which do not really matter much at all in the grand scheme of things, neglecting those more important causes." (emphasis added)

Yes, President Monson, for me this is exactly what I needed to read. Onto more important causes.

Next post...our family fun trip to Silverwood Theme Park.

12 comments:

Shaila Lou said...

I feel such freedom since I deleted mine. Funny how that is! I like it for some reasons, and hate it for others. I'm so tired of the time waster it is.

I love that quote and I remember reading it before and feel so guilty knowing that I am so bad for wasting time on things that don't matter.

I might reactivate it someday, but we'll see. For right now I'm enjoying the vacaction and being free of people sharing their drama!

natemann said...

Way to crazy I deleted my account just last Thursday to crazy Melanie I loved your quote

Neighbor Jane Payne said...

Ahhhh, I love your honesty in seeing yourself Melanie. You are such a good example to me. Thanks for the reminder to see the bigger picture.

Elizabeth said...

Thanks for reminding me of that quote. It's a good one!

donna said...

wonderful Quote.

Brenda said...

Amen cousin. But I'm not to the deleting stage yet I have scaled back a bunch!

Angie said...

Good for you, totally understand your reasonings...

Although like food, reality shows, and shopping for Q...facebook is an addiction I just can't stop. :)

Melinda said...

Way to go Melanie! I have not missed facebook at all since I deleted mine. That is a great quote, one to hang on the fridge to be a constant reminder.

Jill said...

I love that quote!

I am pretty much antiFacebook and have never opened an account. Every time I think I'm curious, I log into my sister's account (like once a month) and get so irritated with the stupidity and mess of it all that I log out immediately.

JanaLee said...

Amen, Amen and Amen!

Heidi said...

Ohhh, that's too bad! I didn't know you were on it so much. Is words of friends next?! ;)

Barbie said...

PREACH IT! I didn't delete mine, but I had no self-control so I FORCED my husband to change my password and only log me in when I actually have time to sit and waste my time...if that makes sense. Such a sense of freedom to have my addiction inaccessible. Sad, isn't it?